Saturday, June 30, 2001
The never ending sister's story
I found out today that most probably my sister won't be coming for the wedding nor her children, my nepheu and niece. I got very upset and frustrated, I have done everything on my hand to make her come, helped even financially but what my sister needs is a psychologist. Her traumas and insecurities are unmeasurable; and she keep changing her mind all the time about her life, her relationship with her husband and everything, even about if we love her or not. I can't handle this any more. I have spent my whole life feeling that she jeopardize our lives: our youngest sister, my mom and mine.
She can't see us happy that she starts making trouble for herself and for us. Putting herself as a victim, crying, yelling and things of the kind. I feel sorry for the kids, they will grow up in a vicious environment. Psychological and physically vicious because smoke and alcohol seems very much to be part of the picture on their lives. But the distance between us (they live in South America) makes impossible to do anything else, I can't put aside my desires any more because of her and her bad judgement. Definitely ... she needs to grow up!
I found out today that most probably my sister won't be coming for the wedding nor her children, my nepheu and niece. I got very upset and frustrated, I have done everything on my hand to make her come, helped even financially but what my sister needs is a psychologist. Her traumas and insecurities are unmeasurable; and she keep changing her mind all the time about her life, her relationship with her husband and everything, even about if we love her or not. I can't handle this any more. I have spent my whole life feeling that she jeopardize our lives: our youngest sister, my mom and mine.
She can't see us happy that she starts making trouble for herself and for us. Putting herself as a victim, crying, yelling and things of the kind. I feel sorry for the kids, they will grow up in a vicious environment. Psychological and physically vicious because smoke and alcohol seems very much to be part of the picture on their lives. But the distance between us (they live in South America) makes impossible to do anything else, I can't put aside my desires any more because of her and her bad judgement. Definitely ... she needs to grow up!
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